I made a mistake and got with my boyfriends friend in the period we were broken up. He told me it didn't bother him that much and he got over it and we got back together. It's now been a year since I got with his friend and he's only now bringing up that it was the whole reason he got depressed and started to smoke weed 24/7 (which is recent) and he's not over it. I don't know what to do because this whole time I thought we were happy but now he's mad at me and ignoring me for what happened a year ago, when I thought we were passed it. What do I do?  I'm confused because he acted like nothing was wrong for a year and I finally forgave myself for it and it's all been brought up again like it's something I've just done.
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Hi  friend I can understand how you feel after a whole year, but let's take a look at the true circumstances behind what's really going on, I believe your boyfriend is being tionted by his friend for this travesty so let's play ball... So you can't change the past now let's counter act what transpired ... Make your boyfriend believe that his friend was not as pleasing as he is and that was the reason you only slept with him once and tell him Honey that's why I wanted you back so much. Understand my dear that a man has an ego and it's being trampled on so restore his ego with him being big daddy and out of all the men that you ever been with he is by far the most fulfilling.. Also my dear your boyfriend needs to find himself a new crowd of so-called friends because dem dudes aren't nothing but hoes" and as long as they are his friends the fact that he slept with u will continue to haunt his soul... And one final word dear heart .. You need to find better company whenever there is a break in your relationship with the BF try sleeping with someone not so close to home ...

 

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Honestly he probably ha been hiding the fact that it did bother him. And its just been getting worse and worse and he can't hold it in any longer. And unlike what the other answer said how about not sleeping with someone when appart if u care for one another!
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